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Why Are You Even Doing This?
If not to get better results in romance as well as life in general
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Don’t Get High on Your Own Drama
Self-sabotage, stoicism, and the myth of emotional freedom.
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The Loneliness of the Long Distance Dilettante
You must have a pre-existing aesthetic that you are amplifying through all the fancy trappings of opulence. Because if nothing else it’s that congruency…
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She Ripped Out My Heart — But Made Me Dangerous
She tore through my chest and left me bleeding — but in the wreckage, I found my edge
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You Don’t Want Love — You Want Worship
The narcissist’s paradox of attraction. You don’t want love. You want to be worshipped.A raw confession on narcissism, desire, and the paradox that…
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Gentlemanly
Gentlemanly
Former chaos merchant. 20 years in the game. Now writing sharp truths on dating, danger, and the art of staying cool
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